Phil Brown was a solid, kind, laid-back, no-fuss-and-nonsense type of guy with a wicked sense of humour. The one you wanted on your side in a pub quiz, and whose ability for mirth and a quick quip seemed endless. His legendary BBQ tuna steaks and propensity to fill your glass even before it was half-empty were symptomic of the warm hospitality he offered to all those who knew him. His emotional reserve never camouflaged his open, friendly nature, and he went over and above in order to create good relationships, with kind words and thoughtful gestures. He was also my brother-in-law, and a fabulous uncle to my kids.
Phil was diagnosed with bowel cancer two years ago. His status as a multi-marathonian, with at least one run on every continent (yes, including Antartica) and all of the « big » marathons in his pocket, had not prepared anyone to imagine that he could actually already be very ill, or that he would be struck down so quickly. He was so full of life, energy, and projects for the future. And yet, the cancer was already also present in his liver and in his lungs. Phil died on April 23rd at just 53 years old.
We Get It helped Phil verbalise the situation and look it in the eye. It normalized talking about the emotions involved, and provided an incredibly valuable system of support and communication both in person, and then on-line at a time when the world had shut down. Although not normally a « sharing is caring » type of person, Phil was very vocal about how much this group had helped him.
By running / walking / cycling 100k in May, I am joining the rest of my family in honour of Phil, to support We Get It and help them help others. Although I will never rival Phil’s incredible running successes, the 100km will be an opportunity to remember him, to share « à distance » with my family in the UK and to thank this group for the support they provided.
I hope you will support me and contribute generously to this valuable cause.
